tantra upside down...

 The most important thing is that you must be relaxed. Put on your favourite CD, take a nice hot bath, after which you should continue to relax yourself by dancing around to the music. Remember that the muscles around your kundalini will not allow things to pass through easily unless you relax and take it slow. Kundalini tantra is about pleasure. This area for gay bi and straight men is full of nerve endings, so if the pleasuring must be done slowly and sensually. When something is inserted towards your kundalini energy point, the muscles go into spasm, as it's not used to this intrusion. When I am advising clients about using the pantra, for example, I suggest that they insert it for twenty minutes before pleasuring themselves. Many have experienced something being shoved up them and the horrific pain that that involves. So your mind automatically thinks of pain when that area is touched. You need to re-educate your own mind. So start at the beginning gently stroking the entrance, your arse lips. Use plenty of pure coconut oil and make sure your anal lips are lovely and wet. Massage those oily lips with gentle circular motion 81 times to the ri ght and then 81 times to the left. Or the next time your practising yoga or lying in a bath gently play with the opening.

Breathe, big deep breathes as you pleasure your anal lips. There are two muscle rings called sphincters(anal Lips) surrounding the arse opening. They function independently. After the "81 times exercise" rest the tip of your finger on your inner lips about one eighth of an inch inside your arse and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the second sphincter muscles. They are very close to each other. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system - just like the muscles of the arms. It's easy to tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want. The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat. You will find after some minutes your  finger is drawn inside.

Once inside there are two different sensation for you to experience. If you slowly and sensually move your inserted finger towards the front of your body you will feel a small lump, that's your prostate. Massage it in small circular motions 81 times to the right, and then 81 times to the left. Repeat this exercise while slightly vibrating your finger, yes 81 times to the right and 81 times to the left. Then slowly and sensually turn your inserted finger to a 90 degrees angel and move your finger backwards towards your tail-bone(coccyx) and massage 81 times to the right and 81 times to the left. In tantra this is the location of your kundalini energy, from where life energy flows.. 

Remember inside your arse is a very sacred place, a sacred place that holds many secrets to the pleasures of life. Talk to yourself tell yourself how good it feels. Eventually you will be able to cumm just by popping in and having a long sensual chat with all your new friend. This new friend responds best to a diet of fibre. Fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains or unprocessed bran are important sources of fibre, and like to be given a good shower(douche) before entertaining visitors. It is not taboo...

 hello seb, thanks for the note. the article on kundalini is very good.

TAKE TIME TIME TIME TIME

NO SHAME, NO TABOO, NO GUILT

ARRIVE AT MAHAMUDRA .. EVERLASTING ORGASMS

may i suggest some small issues:

i) soften the time with yourself each and every time you visit your anus and await the small everlasting orgasmic sensations. the mind wants MORE, BIGGER, DEEPER, LOUDER and NOW. the kundalini wants softer and everlasting.

ii) do not expect/demand/await/look for softness before the 10th (81st) time

iii) do not hang on to what you have done, remember/savour/nourish/carry what is has done for you. do not share what you have done with others, share what it has done for you.

iii) kundalini rise is no big deal, it is you anyway. when these beautiful things happen, you are actually just where god left you anyway before we fucked it up. to live that life of GREATNESS, that is note and praise worthy. Big hug, Martin

My dear friend, all you say is accurate but you have neglected  the real channeling kundalini energy. You also neglect to define kundalini. Red tantra is not so much about the destination as it is about the journey. Procedures and manipulations have evolved over perhaps thousands of years and focus on a giver and a receiver who can alternate these positions during a session for a shared and equal journey. Most of the procedures and manipulations can be adapted or adjusted for a solo journey (as I have done). Your preparation for relaxing the anus (sphincters) is accurate and your description of how to insert a finger (or your pantra) and what to do with it when it is inserted is also accurate. But tantra does not begin with the first chakra. The first chakra is where you channel energy from the seventh, sixth, and fifth to the fourth or heart chakra, and connect them to the second chakra -- the wand of light -- via the  third before transferring it to the first. You neglected to say how this energy at this juncture combined the yin and the yang components of  a man and travels of the spinal nerves to the pineal glad to release serotonin and dopamine. I know this is also a bit much for many who are eager for the destination.

When you sent me the pantra several years ago.  I learned to use it -- before I always used one or two fingers to dance on my prostate, and could short cut the entire process by achieving  sensational orgasms withour without stroking my cock and  ending in either ejaculation or inejacuation (whether I release my semen orf absorbed it has been  my choice). Short cutting as you have described. provides a great experience but I assure you though lenthy the more orthodo tantric procedure is more rewarding -- by the extraordianry pleasure during an for a long time after, but the great sense of who you are, self appreciation and your entire sense of being. As always, I applaud you for your mentoring men to respect and honor who they are and make the most of their potential. You are absolutely correct in emphasizing that when approaching ones body for any type of self pleasuring, cleanliness is all important. The body should clean inside and out, the mind should be focused on what you are doing --  ambiance is also important, and one must set aside time without any interruptions. Wish we could be face to face -- both naked and honor one another with both a session with many plateaus and and the direct and  more immediate arrival at rapture. Always here for you. Still in Chicago and very grateful for our past exchanges.  The pantra, the three-ring cock enhance, and the focus on the the trinity -- faith (the prostate and anal awareness), hope (our balls and what they offer), and finally love (our  cocks or wands of true light), thanks for being there and for all that you are and all that you provide Dorje

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